The Commandment of Optimism: Why Pessimism Will Always Fail
Happiness and optimism are more infectious and influential than sadness and negativism. Whenever I have been pessimistic, my life tends to go nowhere (which only makes me even more negative!). Being negative never gained me any friends but repelled people away from me. Being pessimistic retards you. You donāt take action in pessimism. You donāt get smarter under pessimism. You just become stupider and filled with fear.
Many people became millionaires just by selling books on optimism. Why didnāt books on pessimism sell millions of copies? It is because anyone can be pessimistic. Anyone can shape the world into gloom and doom. But only a few can be optimistic.
This commandment is to FIGHT negativism. We all are filled with some sort of negativity. We must struggle with it and wrestle it down like some giant snake, because pessimism gets in the way of who we are. You fight negativism not by ignoring it, not by pretending it doesnāt exist, but by using reason itself.
People want to be part of movements that are optimistic, joyful, and winning. Who wants to be part of a movement that says, āNothing can be done. The world is over. We are doomed?ā There is no book titled The Great Gloom and Doomers of History.
There are many reasons to be optimistic:
- The liberation of women is only resulting in the liberation of men. Men are free to shrug off the old family chains and responsibilities since there is no pressure to marry. Men can have sex with any woman almost openly. Men do not have to start a family if they donāt really want to (whereas before, it was socially enforced).
- Western women had the greatest paradise any woman has had... they had men working for them, worshipping them, in the richest nations ever known on Earth. And they threw all that away to ābecome like men.ā This revealed to many men the secrets of female manipulation. The cat is now out of the bag and cannot be stuffed back in again. Thanks to the internet, the song and dance of manipulation is finally ending.
- More and more men are finding love (and pleasure) overseas. This means men have options in other countries. Western women do not.
- Men can find whatever they wish. If they want a traditional wife, they can find one from the Philippines or somewhere else. If they just want prostitutes, they have Thailand among other places. If they want more... uhh... zesty women, they have Russia, Brazil, along with other countries. The possibilities are endless.
- In the U.S., marriage rates are dropping and cohabitation is up. This is because men are waking up to the strange legal system that operates around marriage.
- Western women still donāt get it. They still have the āYOU GO GRRLL!ā attitude of a career woman or something else. They donāt understand why men are increasingly refusing to date or marry them. All they know is that everything is the menās fault... somehow. Today, the 'boys' arenāt MAN enough to ask her out (or so she thinks).
- Feminism is losing power politically. Demographically, this is true. The surest way to pass values from one generation to another is with children. Feminists do not believe in children, which is one of the reasons why they are losing numbers. Abortion has not helped their cause but only depleted their flock.
- Divorce laws and child custody laws are beginning to be fiercely challenged.
- Paternity testing is spreading like wildfire.
- The abuse of shouting ārapeā just to āget evenā has received widespread attention.
- Each day, more men āget it,ā and realize they donāt have to follow The Way.
The trends are all in our favor. Your job is to figure out what you want in life and GO FOR IT.
...Or you could sit in the corner and think that the world is going to end. But you are not getting any younger. Do not fall prey to the Paralysis of Analysis!
Thou shall live!!! And do not let anyone steal your joy.
Written by Pook at SoSuave forum
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