The Book of Pook

The Don Juan Mindset: Building Your Own World and Living By It

It all comes down to this choice: live your dreams or live other people's dreams. The bitterness of a poor-quality woman is remembered far longer than the sweetness of how easy it was to get her. Keep your standards up. Aim high.

The difference between successful people and unsuccessful people is this: the former invests his time while the latter spends his time. Most young people don’t realize they are at a golden moment to plant seeds of talent to harvest throughout their lives. Some think, “When you get older, it gets harder.” That’s only if you spend rather than invest. If you invest your time, life keeps getting easier and more fun.

The more divided a man is between his dream and self, the more he will point to how “nice” he is, how “intellectual” he is, and unceasingly inform us on how “rotten” the world is. Philosophy is the refuge for those who refuse to be flesh and blood.

Who are the truly unhappy males? It is those who live for women’s desire. These include the Nice Guys, the Players, and anyone who dresses, talks, and even chooses their profession based on what “women want.” These guys have no sense of self when a woman stands before them.

Don Juaning works best when you don’t think about it too much.

Unlimited opportunities with women are just as frustrating as no opportunities. The Nice Guy and the Lady Killer will end up with the same frustration. The only cure is to create your own world, your own standards, your own life, and bring women into your world (rather than be sucked into theirs).

When you see a metrosexual, call him “princess.” That is the correct name for such creatures.

Men and women fail in their relationships usually because they think they ought to “act” in some type of way to gain the other person’s favor. It never works. And even if it did work, you still aren’t compatible. It shows that the person is scared of their own world or lacks one.

Some people think women are weak and stupid. I disagree strongly—and so do you. The reason why there is a forum is precisely because women were stronger than we thought.

The fulfillment of your own sexuality is nothing less than your battle for existence.

Consistency is the most important thing to success—in anything. Some say, “Poo poo! I only asked out one girl this week. I come to this board and hear a guy asking out a hundred chicks!” Stop it! It is more important to make it a habit. Any fool can talk to a hundred chicks in a week, such as at a large gathering or event. But very few can keep it consistent. Even if you ask out one girl a week, that is 52 girls in a year! That is more than most guys ask out in a lifetime. Consistency is all.

There is no method except yourself.

Women occupy a place in thought and action that is unique and essential to man and the world. Why on Earth would they reject the precious gifts Nature has given them to imitate models of “male domination”? The genius of every woman is to love; to protect and nourish the lives entrusted to her; and to support the full development of life in others.

Ignoring the truth of sexuality is ignoring the truth of life. Break sexuality’s cycle, and you end up in a life of utter collapse.

Dreams are more powerful than facts. Imagination is stronger than knowledge. Myth is more powerful than history, and passion will always go further than experience. The final word to the book of science is that the world can be made into whatever we want—that the real world is not outside you but within—which gives us the power to begin the world over again.

Mediocrities avoid risk the way alcoholics avoid a cure.

Most people live in a web of narcissism, using different strategies to achieve it, which people mistake for different lives. From the intellectual who reads solely to stroke his ego to orgasmic revelation, to the player who stakes his pride in so many conquests, to the women who pop themselves with “cherry-like” husbands and kids just to make the neighbors jealous—the strategies differ, but the narcissism is the same.

Ladies, if you have only one hour left to live, spend it with a Nice Guy. That hour will seem like an eternity.

Manners for men: the direction of masculine strength, not the denial of it.

The difference between mistakes and experience is this: mistakes are made when one has not achieved his desires, whereas experience is made when the desires are achieved. If you are still making mistakes, keep making them. At some point, all those mistakes will morph into “experience.”

Show me an unsuccessful person in life, and I will show you a person who thinks they are “perfect.”

Planned perfection? Pah! Give me the heartaches and shocks that flesh is heir to! No more will I bare Lady Patience digging her spurs into me to slow down and “watch myself.” This “perfection” is an Athena child grown directly from your head. Every third thought shall be my grave.

Older women are easiest to have casual affairs with. Youth is a wizard’s staff, and without it, she can cast no spells.

Relationships of the “New” Man and the “New” Woman are two androgynous beings swapping a phallus. “I’ll be the man for today, honey.” “OK dear, but I get the phallus Thursday for a meeting at work.”

Faith in the “glory” of women is a substitute for the lost faith we have in ourselves.

The burning honor that men feel duty-bound toward women is “attaching our drowning selves to a passing raft.” What looks like “nobility” is a way of holding on for dear life. Take away the “honor” a man feels he owes to the woman, and you leave his life puny and meaningless.

Exchanging self-centeredness for chivalry (selflessness), men gain enormously in self-esteem. The vanity of the chivalrous, even those who proclaim utmost humility, outdoes the vanity of the self-centered.

Sexuality extends outside the bedroom. Did sexuality exist in films of the 50s and earlier? There you find the greatest depictions of romance (of how the tension builds and builds just for a kiss), of plot (epics), and of men (John Wayne). Imagine if people today externalized their sexuality in the same way. Rather than cocooning our sexuality in the bedroom, it would now be part of every waking moment. Let society become sexualized (as opposed to eroticized) once again.

Reveal a man’s perspective on women, and you reveal his perspective on life. Men conquer worlds; women conquer men.

Listen very carefully to the words women use when they talk about men (especially among themselves). It is as if their conversation revolves around domestic appliances.

Women and finance are not two but one.

Written by Pook at SoSuave forum

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