Three Keys to Unlocking a Woman: The Don Juan Method
Gentlemen,
Welcome to Don Juan.
There are THREE KEYS that unlock a series of locks that is Woman.
Key One: Her sexuality and YOURS shall be embraced.
You have acted thus far as nonsexual, going so far as to SUPPRESS your sexuality. Why does she choose the Jerk over the Nice Guy? It is not because she dislikes niceness. A woman would rather be with a male, no matter how tyrannical, than with an androgynous man, no matter how nice.
You have not been dating but making friends. You do not need twenty-five female friends. You are so nonsexual that you do not initiate contact. You do not TRY to talk to a woman in a way that leads her to be aroused. Heaven forbid that a woman might think that you want to sleep with her!
Your passive and cautious talking, your posture, the way you avoid her gazeālest she might see the truth in your eyesāthese are just a few of the MANY WAYS you have been dodging not her sexuality, but YOUR OWN.
Damn it, YOU ARE MALE! SHE IS FEMALE! Sexuality is Godās precious gift! It is Natureās course! Why are you afraid? WHY!?
Key Two: Fun shall be the focus.
Why are you so serious? You are not to propose to her on the first date, fourth date, or eighth date. You are not to talk endlessly about your life story.
From sex to the very first meeting, the focus must be on fun. You must get this āsoulmateā, ātrue loveā, and pedestal worship out of your head. Not that these things are necessarily bad, but they poison everything AT FIRST.
Fun is a powerful key. It is so powerful that female friends may become interested in you solely because YOU ARE FUN. On dates, focus not on what will go wrong, not on what will go right, not on the outcome, but on the game. Even if the girl ends up being a loser, you still win because you were focusing on the fun and not on the girl. (And those who focus on the girl lose focus on the fun and, thus, lose the girl.)
Key Three: You are the PRIZE to be won.
Think, āShe wants to be with me,ā rather than, āI want to be with her.ā Imagine girls are gravitating toward you in every way. Assume that she is interested in you. If she is not, assume that she will be.
This will keep you from being disrespected, from falling for an UG, from sacrificing your life to her, and from losing sight of her winning YOU. YOU are the GREAT CATCH!
But this is not arrogance. This key unleashes a pleasant cockiness. Combine this with the Fun Key, and you have both cockiness and humor.
These are the THREE OBSTACLES (the three locks) that most guys have trouble with:
- They defy the first key by acting like sexual androids.
- They defy the second key by being consumed with their feelings and, on dates, seeing HER as the fun rather than the date itself (and end up doing BORING dates like movies or dinner, when they should be doing ACTION dates like dancing, skating, bowling, rock climbing, etc.).
- They defy the third key by seeing the woman as the trophy, as the goal, and by such, all their actions revolve around her. She becomes the axis of their desires. This is where we find gifts, poetry, chocolate, and ten phone calls a day being thrown at the girl. He sees her as a goddess, so she begins to think herself one. Then she DUMPS him and goes for the guy that treats her roughly (in hopes that HE will see her as a goddess).
Women have a series of locks. These three keys of Don Juan can unlock most, if not all.
So dream no more, gentlemen. Dream no more! The night has passed. A dawn of new life is upon you. Wear not the past of dreadful woes. Let them go. And may you be full of joy and life.
And prepare yourselfā¦ for your dreams of women are about to come true.
Written by Pook at SoSuave forum
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